> On the other hand, going the extra distance to see that defensiveness is
> pointed out for what it is--wrong thinking--often leaves those who live
> by the code of abuse and suffering abuse to see abuse where only good
> intent exists.
Let's see if you can live by those words when you are the subject of the
abuse and become defensive.
Or is it time to tell me to "f&%k off" too?
With only the best of intentions-
-Prof. Tim