>Why don't you or Richard just say it? Otherwise no matter what she says
>you could claim you knew it all along.
If faith=trust, you seem to have expelled the faith from this conversation.
>I predict she will agree that
>in general it is bad to delude oneself or otherwise avoid the truth in
>relationships. What is your prediction?
That she will say that you are more important to her than anything. Including the truth.
(Understand, I have never met your wife--at least that's the story I'm stickin' to. :-)