Reed:
>That doesn't mean you don't think seriously about
>what people say to you. I just means that, at the
>moment of confrontation, you have to throw everything
>into fray...and then some. It's like a marathon, if
>you aren't sick and puking by the end, then you
>didn't really give it all you could.
This statement makes me a little wary. I stand by it. In needs to be resolute. But I feel the need to make this caveat: there is always a way to negotiate, one just has to be creative enough to find it. To engage in aggressive behavior is always an indictment of the aggressor. Yes, I recognize the irony in that statement. But sometimes you have to be resolute.
Reed
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