Hi,
Tim Rhodes <proftim@speakeasy.org>:
<< Eric Boyd wrote:
>>I think it would be far better to examine, understand and forgive.
>>(the axiom is that if they've been cheating, it's cause your not
>>living up to your half of the bargain; and should therefore find out
>>what's wrong so you can fix it!)
>
>It always has to be about _you_, doesn't it, Eric?
I'm not sure I follow??? It is certainly conceivable that the situation is their "fault", if you will (e.g. perhaps the person is poly but didn't tell you; i.e. a breakdown in communications on their part).
ERiC